Josh Kezer: "Just Saying" Chivalry Isn't Dead

Friday, November 22, 2013

"Just Saying" Chivalry Isn't Dead

Re: http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-chivalry-is-dead-from-a-mans-perspective/

"Chivalry is dead." John Picciuto

Chivalry isn't dead.

For the sake of manhood, can we men stop looking like winy girlfriendless sex depraved babies? Man up. The woman that God's designed for you will make herself known. Man up and find her. Man up and give her a reason to appear. Man up and pray for her. Stop blaming women for your own issues. "The real problem here is that women" .... is nonsense. A man wrote this article. He needs to own his own weight. Women can write this. Men need to write "The real problem here is that men" ....

"Where did we lose the chivalrous touch? When did it become acceptable to just text a girl, inviting her to come bang? Don’t get me wrong. I’m not complaining about those instances, I’m just saying," .... He's just saying? He's just saying what? He's just saying he's jealous. He's not getting these texts? "Where did we lose the chivalrous touch?" Where did this guy lose his? "I'm not complaining about those instances." Where's the "chivalrous touch" in that? He's not complaining? Sure he is. "Where did we lose the chivalrous touch?" He answered his own question. He's just not man enough to look inward for the answer. He would be better off looking inward and addressing his own need for chivalry.

I know chivalry is damaged. It's not dead, but it's damaged. It's damaged in most men. It's damaged in me, seriously damaged, damaged to the point of near wreckage at times, but ... I'd rather look inward and in Christ for answers and restoration rather than ... rather than entertain the idea that it's just dead and it's the responsibility of women to resurrect it.

Jesus Christ is Lord and when He walked amongst us, He was a Man amongst men, the Manliest of men, the most chivalrous of us all. He conquered death for us. 2nd Corinthians 5:21. The least we men could do is honor His conquering by conquering ourselves, Galatians 2:20, and taking responsibility for our own mess. Amen? I'll say it. Amen.

"Just saying."

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At 18, I was arrested in Illinois and sent to Missouri on a 1st degree murder charge. At 19, I was erroneously convicted of 2nd degree murder and sentenced to two consecutive 30 year sentences. I was sentenced on the victim's birthday. The victim's name was Angela M. Lawless.

The day following my sentence, I was sent to the Missouri Department of Corrections, where my sentence was illegally reconfigured to a 60. I was illegally placed under life sentence sanctions. I did a total of 16 years, 10 of which was spent in Jefferson City's notorious "Walls", once rumored to be the largest prison in the world and a place Time Magazine once deemed "The Bloodiest 47 Acres In America".

Two days after my 34th birthday, I was released and declared "innocent". I was completely exonerated by Judge Richard Callahan on February 17th 2009 and released on the 18th.

I'm a blessed, loved and fortunate man of God.

I'm not trying to be a "good Christian" and I accept that I'm not. I'm just a genuine, authentic, messed up, jacked up, screwed up, busted up, mistake prone, "too much", love struck, silly, incurable, delivered, justified, redeemed and forgiven child of the King and follower of Christ.

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I've been beaten with fists and bats, stabbed, shot at, mobbed and ganged up on. As a teenager, I was in a Kankakee Illinois Chicagoland gang and was once addicted to several drugs and alcohol. I've had someone attempt to hit me with a car, nearly fallen to my death as a child and again as a teenager. I've known several forms and types of abuse. I've boxed, lifted weights, wrestled, done some martial arts and am proficient in street fighting. I've overdosed on cocaine and fallen asleep in my own vomit several times as a teenager. I've literally been thrown through walls, been homeless and slept in the worst places, and once, for a matter of months, faced the unfortunate and undeserved prospects of dying by lethal injection while facing charges for a murder I did not commit. I did 16 years in prison as an innocent man in the state of Missouri. I've defended myself against prison rapists and was once hospitalized for a week due to a failed attack by multiple men in the late 90's, and yet ... I'm still here! I'm still breathing! I'm a man of purpose and honor. I'm confident in who I am. I've known enough near death experiences to fill up a thesis, but it's not these near death experiences and atrocities that define me. It's my living and, more specifically, my living in my salvation in Christ that defines me and makes me who I am, and when I'm finished and it's all been said and done, I want to be forever known as a man proficient in a few attributes, as a gentle, loving, honorable and selfless man, a husband, a father and a friend that reflects more of Him and less of me.

In light of my own faults, sins and frailty, of everything I've ever learned, I've learned this more than anything; more than the Cross, I need the Lord of the conquered Cross of sin and death. I need the Life Giver. I need Jesus. Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. I am unashamed.

"I was crushed...so much so that I despaired even of life, but that was to make me rely not on myself, but on the God who raises the dead." 2nd Corinthians 1:8,9

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